What is it about this word that I struggle with? I like to think of myself as a fairly tolerant person, but at the same time there are certain things that I struggle to think outside of my sheltered little box with. Whether it is a lack of understanding or a lack of effort on my part to understand, I find myself struggling with this on a daily basis.
Most would see this as something that is minor at best, but I truly am beginning to believe that it is the very understanding of the concept of acceptance that causes most of the major pitfalls in my spiritual walk. So many things that I have experienced over the last few years of my life have amplified this situation to the point that it has caused me to re-evaluate my thought process, and for me, that is a big thing.
I am by nature a process person. I like to think that I can logically process a situation from point A to point B and come up with the proper action or solution. But what if the very process I have depended on for years now is proven to be flawed? I now wonder if this very process is the thing that keeps me from the goals I work so hard to achieve.
Trying to understand the way someone else thinks is extremely difficult at best. But it is the only way to exist in relationships. The simple truth is that everyone does not respond or think the same way. Now before anyone gets worried, I’m not talking about theological issues here. I’m talking about trying to exist and better the relationships we are in on a daily basis, starting at home with our families, then our friends, our co-workers, etc. Wouldn’t it be incredible if these were all highly productive relationships in our lives.
Unfortunately, that’s not often the case. Some conflicts are unavoidable. But most are simply a lack of understanding or acceptance by one side of the other sides position. There are times when both sides are right, and those are the times that I seem to need help with. How much more productive could my relationships be if I could understand the concept of both sides being right. I believe the shortfall comes because of my inability or unwillingness to understand the other “right”.
I do know this. I can really tell when the relationships at all levels in my life are working how they are supposed to. There is a harmony that creates a joyful approach to each day. Life truly becomes an enjoyable series of challenges that are much easier to accomplish with a smile.
So the next time that life seems to be getting tough, do what I do. Reevaluate the influential relationships in your life and make sure that you are doing your best to be accepting of views other than your own. If you’re like me, you might just learn something in the process!
Until next time…..
I can completely relate to this, Gus. My brother has Autism, and sometimes it’s hard to accept the fact that he has these needs, especially when it comes to taking him out in public, because my family and myself’s lives revolve around his schedule. Recently, I have been so discouraged because of the lifestyle I live. But reading this reminds me of a lot of things: William is very smart, very funny, loves people, and is a born-again Christian. Sometimes it’s hard to look on the inside while the outside is making itself known, but I needed this today. Hope to see more great things!
Oh my Gus, that’s some pretty deep stuff. And I don’t mean it in a bad way. If hoj you catch my drift;
This is off topic….
I just wanted to say, tonight was one of the best concerts I have ever been to. I hadn’t heard the music from the new CD until tonight. I LOVE it! I listened to the CD all the way home. See you in Visalia!
Very good, Gus. I am sure that we all could learn a lot from this. It comes back to the scripture of “loving others like we love ourselves”, It seems to be a human tendency to want to be right all the time, but as you say, sometimes both sides can be right and if we can learn to accept other people’s opinions and feelings, be agreeable even if we disagree, I am sure that our life would be a lot easier. Sounds like you have the right perspective on it.
On another subject, I just watched an older video where Scott was playing his guitar. How come he does not do this anymore?
Scotts Bass is in need of repair at this point. The problem is finding the parts. It is an older model, so the parts are more than the bass is worth to repair. We are trying to talk him into a new one so I’ll let you k ow how that progresses!
Hope everyone is home safe and ready to ejoy Thanksgiving with your family and friends.
Happy Thanksgiving, I know you have made mine a whole lot better.
I was still awake at 2:30 this morning. Turned on TBN and saw “Country Campmeeting”. I did’t know what to expect. When I heard the lineup I knew I had to see it so, I hit the record button on the DVR just in case I went to sleep (I didn’t). Y’all were great. It was good to hear the new songs and the oldies as well. Sometines not being able to sleep can be a blessing. I pray that you will have safe travels. Enjoy the time with your families.