As you already know, we have a lot of fascinating conversations on the bus. One such conversation started out of a simple curiosity that I had. You see, men tend to have a very different view of vehicles than woman do.
Most women simply view their vehicle as transportation or a tool that they use. It’s not that they don’t love their car, because I have seen many ladies who baby their cars as if they were family members. But when it comes down to it, guys always seem to form more of a bond with the vehicles they drive, or would like to drive. Many times the car a guy drives will somewhat define his personality which is not usually the case with women.
Now before any of the ladies out there get upset, let me just say that I am simply making a general observation that more men are attached to their cars than women. That’s not to say that there are not exceptions to this, but for the most part it usually holds true. Guys generally put a lot more value into the car they drive.
As an example, I currently do not really like the car that I drive. Its not that it has been a bad car, I really can’t complain about a car that still functions well after 7 years of use and over 150,000 miles. Now I have to say, I am a stickler for maintenance. I have a regular mechanic who takes care of my families cars, and I consider that a worthy expense so that our cars continue to run when we need them.
But my car is definitely the “family car”. It has no real apparent “guy value”. It’s not one that you tell another guy “oh yes I drive a (insert any cool car here)”. But I can put my entire family and their luggage in it and take off to anywhere and it does just fine. What it lacks in “cool” it makes up for in “practicality” and that makes it an even less attractive “guy car”.
So that being said, on any given day, when I have completed all the daily obligations that I have, you can usually find me looking at cars on my computer. There’s really not one type in particular, just something that would allow me to fulfill all the responsibilities I have as a husband and a father, the practical stuff, but still have some sort of a cool factor to it. I just haven’t been able to talk my wife into it yet, she’s convinced that it is not in our budget, but I am constantly pleading my case!
It was during one of these searches that Cuz walked past my laptop, saw the cars on the screen, and asked me if something had happened to my car. It was my answer that started the entire conversation. I simply said, no, she’s fine. I simply would like something a little cooler.
He laughed and said “so you refer to your car as a she”. I had never really thought about it before that, but yes I always do. She gets great gas mileage, she runs like a top, she looks best when I get her all cleaned up. I never realized how often I referred to it as “she”.
He then asked the question that I pose today. What do you refer to Sunny as? Sunny is our beloved bus that we travel on and you will not find anyone in L5 who has anything ill to say about Sunny. Our bus is wonderful! But I was shocked at my answer, because I referred to Sunny as a “he”. I’m not sure why or what my reasoning is, but for some reason I view our bus as a “he”. Which then made me curious as to what everyone else who calls Sunny home would refer to him as?
One by one I asked each of the guys and the answers I got really surprised me. The only ones who refer to Sunny as a “he” are me and Cuz. Everyone else on the bus refers to Sunny as a “she”. Why is this? I mean, maybe it’s the fact that Legacy Five is made up of five guys and our driver so it makes sense to me to continue the whole male thing. Maybe there is some sort of psychology at work here that I just don’t comprehend.
So I pose the question to you, our faithful friends. When you think of our beloved bus Sunny, do you think of it as a “he” or a “she”? Or do you not assign a thought of gender to it at all? What say ye?
If you were reading this weeks blog hoping for some life lesson, well, I don’t think this is going to do very much for you. They say ignorance is bliss, so let’s just say we have a ton of bliss on our bus!
I am posting this a little earlier in the week than normal because we are in Canada this week and will not return home until the 23rd. So please keep us in your prayers as Sunny will be covering a lot of miles in a short amount of time. But as always, I am sure “he” or “she” will do great and bring us back home without incident!
Until next time…..
